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Perception

Paradise (re)Discovered Chapter 3 – Letting Them Be Who They Really Are

Byron Katie says that, sometimes, we have never even met our relatives because we’re so busy making them who we want them to be. Others, including me, have written pretty much the same thing. But when we demand that others — relatives or otherwise — be who WE want them to be we rob them …

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Feelings Are Not Reality, but Your Responses Are!

I say it every day. Usually a few times a day. Sometimes more! “Feelings are not reality!” But it’s a hard sell when a client is having an awful time of it and their feelings feel just as bad. What we often fail to realize, though, is that there is a third variable in the …

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